In this article, we’re going to discuss different types of dominance to work on when it comes to dating.

Implementing these strategies along with the advice in our article on leadership here will skyrocket your success when it comes to your dating life.

1: Social Dominance

There are many signs of social dominance that you will learn about on this website. However, let’s first review how to NOT act.

Suppose a common friend introduces you to a woman. The interaction takes place as follows:

Common friend of yours: “Very good, and this is Luke”

Her: “Hi Luke”

Luke: (breaks eye contact, looks down and smiles widely) “Hi”

See what just happened here? What do you think are Luke’s chances of seducing this girl or getting any respect from her whatsoever?

We argue that the chances are close to zero because her social dominance is higher than Luke’s.

The general rule when it comes to seduction is the following:

You always want to be more dominant than her.

1.1 Social pressure – Apply it and withstand it

Pressure, and especially social pressure, is a big indicator of social dominance.

Usually, the person who is able to apply social pressure on other people is the most dominant one in the interaction. On the other hand, the one who cracks under social pressure is the subordinate one or the submissive one. By the same logic, a man who puts social pressure on a woman is in the power position.

Imagine you’re talking to a woman about things she loves to do. The interaction could go as follows after she said that she loved going to the gym:

You: (intense) what do you love about the gym (frame control, tasks her, and puts pressure on her to give a thoughtful answer by being silent and direct eye contact)

Her: (gives a thoughtful answer)

You: (silence, social dominance, puts pressure on her to keep the conversation going)

Her: are you a regular in the gym?

You: “No, just a guy who loves having a balanced lifestyle (contradicts her, he’s not forcing any connection, he sub-communicates he doesn’t kiss up to her) “searching for true balance”. What do you search for (assumes she’s searching for something meaningful)

Her: (answers with what she searches for and qualifies by saying that balance is indeed important)

You: (full frontal, getting into physical dominance now) “Perhaps I’ll show you what true balance looks like” (strong eye contact, walks towards her, physical and sexual dominance)

The most important thing in this interaction is the ability to raise and release tension at will. This communicates, “I’m the one in charge here” and gives the woman the thrilling feeling of being at your mercy.

However, consider this tip from our side:

Go more friendly (higher warmth) in the beginning. It’s important not to go overboard with the dominance at the beginning, as some women can get scared if you are too intense at the wrong time.

If you’re not sure what type of woman she is yet, start friendlier and with more warmth rather than going full-on dominant.

You can always up dominance at the right time and place, but it’s difficult to go back once you’ve already done so.

1.2 Social power showdowns

Power showdowns can make or break a relationship, especially when it comes to women. Social power dynamics can be difficult to spot and even (seemingly) innocent teasing can hide dominance tests and showdowns.

Shit tests are often also in this category and are widely used by women to test a man’s strength. Oftentimes, they are covert power moves in order to test how the man reacts under social pressure.

If you want to have a complete guide on what these tests are, how they show up and what you can do to handle them, check out our E-Book on mastering women’s testing here.

Let’s make an example for now and we’ll show you how to swat the test with a “Pressure flip” (one of the recommended frame control techniques) and some other power moves.

Alright, imagine the following dialogue between a man and a woman at a bar. After you talked to her for a couple of minutes, you switched the location to a more quite corner, escalated physically and are now on the verge of getting more intimate with her:

Her: “You’re surely only talking to me because you’re looking for someone to take home” (with a haughty look, turning away as if to refuse him. This is clearly a “shit test”.) (Note: asking her “why” or defending here would have meant putting her in the judge power position)

You: “Me? I’m looking for someone to take home?” (turns to her, gets closer to her to her face, raises his voice but smiling: it’s a friendly counterattack) Look at you with the tight dress on and the makeup on your face (reaches out to her hands), the paint on your nails and the coiffed hair (touches her hair). Yeah, nice try (pats her head, a “babying” power move

Her: (lowers her gaze, smiles because you complimented her and because she has been socially dominated and out-powered)

Note: It’s important that your body language, tone of voice and gaze is congruent with your confident display. If you’re looking down while saying this, stutter or show any other signs of subordination, you still signal lower power.

2: Intellectual dominance

Many people underestimate how important intellectual dominance is when it comes to dominance in general.

While we know that intelligence is an important trait, especially for long-term dating, intellectual dominance is less about “being the smartest” or “knowing more”.

In this case, we more so refer to the ability to have frame control, advancing or defending your opinion and make a woman change her mind. It’s essentially about imposing your frame on her in an intellectual manner.

2.1 Frame control

We will have a whole course on frame control as this website progresses. The lessons therein will also encompass frame control in a general sense, but we’ll focus on great frame control with women here.

There are many good video examples of frame control, which will be put into this article at a later step. However, for the sake of simplicity, we will imagine another conversation between a man and a woman. Suppose you’re meeting a woman and the conversation starts to revolve around going out.

Her: “I heard that your quite a regular at …. Club”

You: … (she makes clubbing out to be a big deal but you refuse to be pulled into her frame and brag about the past)

Her: “That must’ve been so much fun!

You: …. (still holding your “no big deal” frame and just holding eye contact) (This is also the social pressure we talked about earlier. She actively tries to keep to conversation alive now)

Her: “Come on, why don’t you say something about that”

You: “There’s nothing much to remember, to be honest. I rarely think about what has already happened… What I care about is what could happen tonight, and what might happen tomorrow. Yeah?” (the frame control here is amazing, since you just completely transformed the frame from “reminiscing about the past” to “let’s see what happens in the future.. and between us” and pulled her right into it as well)

Her: “Yes” (U-turns and accepts his frame as she’s sold by his leadership)

This is the indifferent attitude of a man who has seen the world… and it makes women dote on him.

3: Physical Dominance and sexual escalation

Before we go into this topic, I want to clarify a few things. The authors don’t want to end up on a talk show to justify their choices because some of the readers on this blog decided to use the material in the wrong way. Don’t see the advice here from an autistic side.

I want to preface this topic with this, because physical dominance is a completely misunderstood and poorly discussed concept in many cases.

Physical dominance describes the whole spectrum of body movement and body contact. Sexual dominance is a subcategory of physical dominance.

It starts with being comfortable with one’s own sexuality, and it takes center stage in the last stages of seduction, during sexual escalation, and sex.

How do you apply physical dominance during seduction then?

3.1: Escalations, LMR and Dominance

LMR in this case refers to “last minute resistance” and is a defense mechanism women have. You can look at it the same as the “approach anxiety” for men. Since sex is a risk for women, they might throw some resistance your way if you escalate in the bedroom.

Typical LMR and sexual resistance are for example:

1. She turns her head away when you go for a kiss
2. She says something like: “We won’t have sex tonight”
3. She stops your hands
4. She refuses to move to a more “horizontal” position in the bed, i.e. she refuses to lay down
5. She’s battling over clothing items as soon as you’re trying to remove them

This is nothing malicious on the woman’s part. What she’s trying to do here is testing the emotional stability of the man, which is something women care about big time.

There are some men who can’t control themselves or get angry as soon as a woman attempts to slow them down. Women fear these men and if you’re one of them, you blow the entire process if you get emotional.

Experienced and emotionally stable men remain emotionally grounded and remain a good mood throughout.

3.2 Physical dominance when it comes to LMR

Physical dominance is highly attractive to women, if you execute it well.

Badly executed dominance can be dangerous, scary and abusive. As soon as the vibe turns negative or she’s afraid, you execute poorly.

However, if you handle it in a calibrated fashion and are dominant, you will not only conquer her body but also her heart.

Her attraction might go even higher if you execute the escalation with the woman dominantly. You will probably notice that some women get quite chase-y after a well-executed escalation to sex.

Always keep in mind that good sexual dominance requires social intelligence and calibration. You need to understand when it’s getting too much and when it’s safe to push. Therefore, this is a somewhat advanced approach.

When a man gets more experienced in reading emotions and then handling them, he can push hard and still keep an overall pleasant and even caring attitude.

Pro-Tip: Battling LMR is not a must and you can decide to let her go / continue on later

It’s perfectly fine to let go of women who put up too much resistance.

We would argue that it’s a good strategy to ask for more investment, even. If you stop the escalation and ask for a more collaborative approach, you skip the whole back-and forth with LMR.

The authors used this in the past. If the vibe is not right anymore and/or she puts up too much resistance, you pull back and can even end the date, while still having a good vibe. This will not only show tremendous self-control from your part but also make the woman wonder. Most men push for sex and if you’re different, you distinguish yourself from other men.

You can always continue an escalation at a later time as long as you can maintain a good vibe.

3.3: How to show sexual dominance

Here you go with a listicle again. In our opinion, these are the best (advanced) moves to pull when it comes to sexual escalations:

1. Grab her neck from behind
2. Grab her neck from the front (safe during sex, we don’t condone this before, though) (Pro tip: Restrict the blood flow, not the air. This means to not put pressure on the air tube but more so around it)
3. On the bed, pin her hands above her head while you kiss her or remove an item of clothing (can also be used during sex)
4. Kiss and grope her overcome by desire and lust, then go back to normal
5. Hold her face until you can at least give her a peck (avoid the dynamic where she’s the leader deciding what to give out)
6. Pick her up to carry her to the bed
7. Push her into a lying position (you have to be in “we’re having fun” frame)
8. Jokingly drag her towards the bed
9. Increase physical intensity to overcome resistance before you stop
10. Spank her ass (during sex)
11. If you enter from behind, take her hands and put them behind her back
12. Bite her (not too hard, of course!)

ALWAYS think about this:

She must know and feel that it’s safe at all times!

If she doesn’t know that she’s safe, tell her that she is. Look out for fear signals, and reframe unsafe into safe.

Let’s make an example:

Her: If you keep pushing, I’ll leave/ scream

You: Wooow, slow down, what are you saying, there is nothing to scream about. You’re absolutely safe here and if there needs to be any screaming, I want you to do it because you enjoy it.

If she’s feeling to unsafe or you’re unsure, it’s better to pull away for a second, and try again later. At the same time, reassure her that she’s safe with you.

3.4: How you can achieve dominant escalations within a safe and collaborative frame

Physical dominance by itself can sometime suffice to escalate to sex. Some women also respond with increased attraction as soon as you do this.

However, if the dominance is disempowering, it will push a lot of women away. The best dominant escalations mix dominance with warmth. This the same strategy as we always preach on this blog – Power and warmth

Since women either categorize men into lovers or providers, you can really cut through the bullshit here:

Dominance plus warmth and a collaborative frame with win-win in mind gives you the power of the lover and the kindness of the provider – which is the best of both worlds.

When you escalate, you can do the following things to make the escalation both dominant (power) and high-warmth:

1. Pause in between rounds of escalation and lighten the mood (tease, talk, or tell stories about yourself and your life)
2. If she says you are making her feel bad, say “if you say something like that, you make me feel guilty. I want you to feel good” (and change your pace: you’re doing it wrong if you make her feel bad!)
3. Reframe competition into cooperation (for example, if she says you’re being aggressive, say “nono, I’m very kind, I want you to be happy”)
4. Stop and take a step back when she’s getting umcomfortable (Emotional Intelligence is the key here!)
5. Stop for a second and with serious tone assert: “hey, I want you to know that you are safe here”. Pause for a moment and let it sink in. Sometimes we insist on that point and tell her “this is really important, did you get it?” until she acknowledges
6. Reframe dominance into win-win: if she says she’s scared or that you’re pushing too much, say “don’t say that, you’re totally safe here and we’re having a good time”. If you can see she likes you, add “and we like each other”
7. Switch from hard escalation to more cuddly-and caring (ie.: kiss on the forehead, hug, light make out, caressing)
8. Tell her “I like you”
9. Tell her why and what you like about her
10. Tease her
11. Make fun of yourself to take the edge off
12. As soon as she’s getting into it, leverage it and make it obvious (for example, if she says she wants to go while you rub against her, you say with a sexy voice “sure, and what else do you want to do”. If she smiles or enjoys the process, that’s the admission she’s getting ready)

If you’re in a different country than your native one, you can also try the following: Just talk in your native language, that will also lighten the mood. Teach her some words and as soon as the mood is lighter again, try again.

You will sometimes encounter the situation that a woman is not yet ready to remove a piece of clothing. In this case, kiss her naked skin instead (her belly or thighs for example).

Other times, women might want to do it but are battling mental blocks (like the anti slut defense). We know that women must feel like the “good person” all the time. For many women, there is a stigma around sex and wanting to remove clothing themselves is sometimes shameful to them and they feel at fault. This makes them feel like a bad person.  

In these cases, you have to take charge. Either you go nonverbal and try to remove the item or you announce what you’re doing. This can sound something like this:

You: “I’ll put your hands down and remove your panties for you”

In announcing this move, you make it known that the removal of clothing won’t be her fault.

I she doesn’t object and says nothing, chances are that she wants you to do that.

Recommendation from the authors:

You have to be kinder after very dominant escalations. First of all, you want to prevent any risk of her feeling slutty or used. In addition to this, you also want to stave off the risk of “trauma bonding” due to traumatic experiences, which could happen if you don’t mix in enough warmth. Therefore, especially after very dominant escalations, dial up your warmth and kindness.

For example, you could choose to cuddle for a little bit or kiss her on the forehead or something like this.

3.5 Dominance and Collaboration go hand in hand

Sometimes, an interaction can go off the rails if too much sexual dominance from your part is present.

When you go into an interaction with absolute dominance, you will deal with a lot of resistance. It’s especially important to reframe the interaction into collaboration in these cases, because some women are very inclined to leave your place if you just go in with pure dominance.

Always make sure to tell women that you want them to be happy and that you’re going to have a good time together. Even if you have to mention it multiple times while she attempts to pack her shit, that doesn’t matter.

She must understand that she’s safe with you and that you want to have a good time with her. At some point, it will become a much collaborative interaction.

If you then take a bigger break before escalating once again, many women will be in a much more “collaborative” frame.

This is why it’s so important to also mix kindness into your escalation!

Even if an escalation fails and nothing happens, you can still recover from it and have far bigger chances for a second meet (where intimacy is going to happen). However, if you’re only dominant and the escalations fails, then you burned the bridges so to speak.

A woman will most likely regret the interaction and feel ashamed if your approach was too dominant. It might be very well possible that you’ll never hear from her again.

It’s all about how she looks back on this first interaction. A man that escalates with dominance and kindness alike probably inspires a more pleasant memory of the interaction. In addition to this, the bold and dominant, yet kind lover is a rare breed of men.

3.5 Predatory dominance

We also want to make clear that you can definitely display sexual dominance by the way you carry yourself.

Sexual dominance doesn’t need touching to be present. The way you walk, talk, deal with people and, of course, how you look at her.

You probably all know the situation where a photographer takes pictures at a party and you look at them a few days after the fact.

Most people smile and grin on these pictures. Occasionally, though, you will see a guy on a picture with a girl who just has a certain “aura” surrounding him. He doesn’t smile and he doesn’t try to inspire happiness. Instead, he looks like a hunter preying on his victim… Like a predator.

This is similar to the excitement of what Adelyn Byrch, creator of the website “psychopaths and love”, refers to as “psychopath stare”.

Byrch says that the “psychopath stare” is absolutely scary to strangers and outside of the constraints of seduction. However, in a relationship and in seductive environments, many women find it extremely arousing.

So the predator frame is best in relationships, in places where she feels safe, or… With more deranged women :).

3.6 When women “poke the bear” to inspire your sexual dominance

There are some situations in which women try to incite a reaction from a man in order for him to dominate her.

This attitude often comes as a coquettish refusal with the sub-communication that the man should take charge, barrel through and dominate her.

Should a man act on those signals, the interaction often ends in lots of moaning and requests of fucking her hard.

However, keep in mind that when women tease men to dominate them, the power rests with these women. At the very least, they somewhat feel in charge because they inspired the whole interaction and the man only acted because of the cues she gave.

If a man wants to re-empower himself after the sex, he should act distant and let her come to him. She should express more interest and emotional investment at this point.

If he doesn’t do this, the power dynamics are still that he’s chasing for sex and the woman is deciding when to provoke him to give it to him.

3.7 Our recommendation: Don’t let women take physical charge

In some rarer cases, women might try to engage in physical strength games with you. Here are a few examples so that you know what we mean:

• Playfully wrestling you
• Taking charge of the escalation (move you away from being on top and get herself on top while still dressed)

While some men think that she’s leading herself to sex and find it a good sign, we disagree.

Women only take charge of the interaction when men are too shy to display accurate amounts of dominance when it comes to the escalation. They rarely do this when the man is taking charge appropriately and leads the interaction.

Most often, it’s a trap and a power play. She’s essentially putting herself in the leadership position at this point. Don’t allow her to prove herself stronger or more strong-willed than you are.

Therefore, don’t take the stage fight too seriously, but also make sure that you win it!

We would recommend you respond with increased dominance in these situations and get her back in position the way you want her to be in. Remember, we’re talking about playful fighting here.

When she tells you or signals that she doesn’t want to do something that you’re trying in a sexual sense, you better stop and lead it in a different direction.

3.8 Regarding fighting simulations

To be honest, we don’t really understand why women put up a “fake fight” in order to establish, who has more dominance. It’s a poor strategy for women, as men are clearly physically stronger than women.

In addition to this, it can be difficult for many men to differentiate between real restistance and a simulated fight. Frankly, this can end up tragically.

Furthermore, the “fight-simulation” subcommunicates that the woman sees the man as an equal, even in the physical sense, which is the reason why she initiates it. Plus, both the man and the woman start the seduction in the bedroom with a combative frame instead of a collaborative one, where the man leads the interaction to the conclusion.

If a relationship is based upon power struggles and establishing dominance, you will get a lot of pushback as a man on even the simplest things. You will have to re-establish your dominance over and over again, which makes for a poor relationship and a more fragile type of bonding.

The best approach for both the man and the woman is that the seduction takes place with the man as the one in charge. If resistance comes up along the way, it’s best to frame it as a game you’re playing together and moving towards a union of bodies and souls together.

This is not only a better win-win strategy, but also the recommended way in the me-too era of false allegations.

4: Dominance when it comes to the bedroom

While it’s certainly true that dominance leads to the bedroom, it can also continue in the bedroom.

Here are some things to do to display dominance in the bedroom:

• Change positions at will
• Command her to get on top of you or to get into a position
• Move her around
• Manhandling her
• Make it animalistic by displaying a more animalistic side
• Make her cum at will (for women who easily peak, explanation follows below)

There are also some other interesting techniques to try as well. Try to have her peak at your will by saying something to the effect of:

“I want you to cum when I tell you to.” Then follow it up with “Don’t cum yet, pull yourself together” as soon as you see that she’s reaching the point of no return.

Finally, release the tension at will by giving her the command to cum, something like “cum for me now, baby”.

For the grand finale, follow this up with something like: “Good girl”

While this only works with women who are able to orgasm easily, it can make for amazing experiences for her… and arouse you as well!

4.1 Dirty talk

You can also incorporate some dirty talk into it. We have noticed that some women really get into it and enjoy it. Other women also have a “praise kink”, meaning that they like to be praised for things they do right.

Some examples:

• Say something to the effect of: “This pussy is mine” (which is very dominant and can arouse women even more)
• Tell you love how her pussy feels around your dick
• Tell her that you love her voice while she’s moaning
• If she’s going down on you, tell her that she does a good job

You can tell her many more things but make sure not to overdo it. Talking too much will ruin the vibe.

4.2 Physical dominance in the bedroom

Why do you think 50 shades of grey was such a box-office hit? It endulges into a sexual fantasy many women have.

Try out the following things during sex and see if you or your woman is the type to enjoy it:

• Spanking her during sex
• Pulling her hair (not too hard and many hairs at once, or you will hurt her. This is more about control than about inflicting pain
• Handcuffs
• Whips (only in certain cases, for many women, this goes too far)

We’re not too deep into the kink scene, so this list is not final. However, we encourage you to try some things out and see if you like them.

5. Sexually objectifying women

Many women enjoy being treated as sexual objects… At the right time and by the right man.

Being overcome by sexual lust, turning her around and bending her over a piece of furniture is definitely something possible. Having sex as soon as she enters your place can be fair, too. Waking up at night or after a nap and then start having sex is also arousing.

Displays of dominance can make women much more mellow and submissive.

However, wild sexual adventures do not guarantee a long-lasting bond or repeated encounters. Some women will feel ashamed by how they were swept away by you and don’t want to see you again, unless you act warmer after the fact.

6: Romantic dominance

Are you surprised to read this one from us? Well, don’t be.

Romantic dominance is probably the most memorable type of dominance you can have. Many women remember the first kiss more than the first sexual encounter. If you execute a romantic move with high power, you can practically be sure to make her adore you and leave an everlasting memory.

An example of romantic dominance could be if you take her by the hand to walk across a beautiful bridge, stop her to admire the view, and then kiss her passionately.

Romantic dominance requires the man to stay in the lead role and seamlessly lead in and out of the romance. This makes the difference between memorable and corny.

That is, he must enjoy the romance, but not get too lost in it. As a man, you are the one who gives the romance. In this romance, the giver is both a player and a conductor.

7: Provider Dominance

A man’s financial power is also an aspect of dominance, which allows you to exert more dominance with a more accepting woman.

Financial power and the ability to provide for women is a huge benefit when it comes to dominance. The one who earns more is, in many cases, the head of the household and makes the decisions.

You will see this dynamic most often with powerful men who have a lot of financial capacity. 

8: Psychological dominance

Consider the following: A parental figure is the embodiment of power. Such a figure inspires and provides a feeling of protection, safety and psychological well-being.

The typical stereotype for a dynamic of this is a woman with “daddy issues” who pairs up with an older man.

However, it would be a mistake to think that just women with “daddy issues” fall for this dynamic. Many women, and many men by that matter, can be addicted to a parental figure.

8.1 You silly little girl

In pick-up and red-pill spaces, there are many people who indulge into the concept of treating girls like they’re “silly and cute”.

While some of you might not be the biggest fan of it, there is some truth to the whole dynamic.

Keep in mind, though, that you have to know where to do it and with whom to do it.

Where to do it

When it comes to interactions in private, many women will enjoy this dynamic. However, it can quickly backfire if you do it at the wrong place and at the wrong time.

Avoid doing a move like this if you’re with people she doesn’t want or cannot show her submissive side to. These situations include colleagues from work, parents, her family, girlfriends of her with a “feminist mindset” and clueless men.

We would also not recommend doing it in front of your guy-friends. Otherwise it might come off as you disrespecting her to show off in front of them.

The best approach is therefore to treat her like a man with high quality. Treat her with respect, love and care in front of other people and like a little silly girl in private (sometimes).

With whom to do it

Some women might accept this treatment from one man, but refuse it from others. It really depends on how she feels about you.

In a general sense, women will allow the “cute little girl” treatment from men she’s intimate with or from men who are far more dominant than her.

Our recommendation is to also use it to test where you stand with a woman:

Treat her like a “silly little girl” if you want to test where she’s at with her personality and also where you stand in the relationship.

Does she give you pushback or accept the behavior? Does she get angry or looks hurt? Or does she try to jokingly tease you back?

This is good data you can use to analyze your relationship.

Example

To be more specific, we can give you a test you can use to analyze the relationship by using a “babying power move”.

In this case, you test the woman for:

• Submissiveness to you
• General submissiveness
• Attitude towards power and power dynamics when it comes to the relationship
• If she has a cooperative attitude or is more confrontational

Imagine you’re laying on the bed and you need to stand up to get something.

Don’t get up and instead explain where it is and then say something like the following:

You: “It’s in the cabinet right there, go get it baby (then be silent and let the social pressure build up by looking at her with expectation)

If you’re sitting, you can give her a slight pat on the back. If you’re standing, give her a light slap on the ass.

The test here is split in two. While you want to see if she executes the task, you also want to see if she pushes back on you calling her “baby”.

The word “baby” together with the slap is slightly demeaning but purposefully done in this test to gauge a reaction from her. You’re essentially framing yourself as the powerful “father figure” and her as the low in power, submissive girl.

This is also called a babying power move.

The woman can then react in one of three ways:

• She objects to the word “baby” but still executes the task.

In this case, she accepts your power over her but wants you to deliver future requests in a more respectful fashion. Maybe she got some of the feminist culture indoctrinated in her, or maybe she has a natural sense of power dynamics (for feminist women, the word “baby” sets off “patriarchy alarm bells” everywhere, and that can be very funny). Anyway, that’s good: you don’t want women who put up with everything without at least showing that they don’t appreciate it.

• If she objects regarding the way you’re tasking her but eventually goes and does it.

In this case, you’re likely to deal with a girl who wants to contribute to the relationship but also wants you to do your part/ the same, which is fine. Just see that you assign tasks in a more respectful way in the future

• If she doesn’t do it and also does not budge eventually, that’s a bad sign.

You’re either dealing with a girl who doesn’t accept you as the dominant force in the relationship or a girl who isn’t about win-win and team work but rather wants to selfishly “win” all the time. We would recommend you reconsider if you made the right choice in dating this woman. In addition to this, we would not enter something serious with her.

9: Dominance when it comes to cultures

Before we finish with this article, we want to make a quick note regarding cultural dominance. Let us preface this by saying: Your background extends to you.

If you’re from different cultures or a mixed couple, you never want to take a backseat to her background.

This also means that you should not adopt holidays from her culture while completely abandoning your own culture. This is bad strategy and frames her as the leader when it comes to cultural dominance.

Either you both adopt the cultures from each other or you go along with the man’s culture.

Summary

If men want to be more successful in dating, they have to be more dominant than women.

Leadership is how you leverage your power and dominance to move the interaction forward while she happily follows.

Healthy dominance does not seek to control her, but it’s simply a consequence of who you have become.

If you want to learn the secrets on how to overcome women’s tests like a pro, check out our E-Book on Female Testing Here.